There is no doubt that we live in a world that has seen exponential progress when it comes to the digital enablement of our lives. This digital progress has forced us to find a balance to use these advancements to better our lives while fighting the negative impacts that emerge over time. It is a classic double-edged sword situation. In the midst of this conundrum, even as adults, we continue to educate ourselves and wrap our minds around the efforts required to establish a balance. However, many of us are also responsible for parenting our little ones. Parenting in this era requires providing our young ones with refined critical thinking abilities and emotional strength so that they are independent enough120 to differentiate between decisions that will enhance their lives and those that will harm their lives. On top of that, 140 let us not forget that we are dealing with a pandemic that overlays its own short-term and long-term impacts160 on us as individuals, as parents, as well as on our kids. How do we do this in a world that is seeing hyper digital advancements fuelled by the pandemic? We have to support one another to guide our collective and individual journeys. We are in this together.
Over the years, the
rise of social media, handheld devices and information accessibility has
increased the occurrence of depression, anxiety, fear, and isolation in kids
from an early age. Technology that hailed the240 possibility of creating stronger connections has created distance.
Parents now have a newfound challenge of building connections with their
children, impacting their harmony as a family. It is ironic that the more
connected the world has become, the more isolated280 we feel. The next pandemic that we are expecting is likely a mental
health pandemic. However, technology on its own cannot be held responsible for
what we are experiencing today or expecting in the future. There are numerous
aspects320 at play here. Evidently, it is firmly believed that there is a
significant negative impact on children and teens due to the excessive use of
technology as investigated by several researchers and data published in
renowned journals. The use of digital360 devices has been seen to contribute to poor concentration and linked to
inhibiting creativity. Children are being exposed to harmful content earlier on
in their lives through games, applications, videos, social media, and other
sources. Within this, there is an increased prevalence of sexual predators
targeting kids and leading the future generation into the darker corners of the
digital world. 420 The impact is often manifested in agitations, hyperactivity,
loneliness, or wariness, making it difficult for parents to monitor, support
and communicate with the child. Without a doubt, parenting can be difficult in
the wake of the malicious and inappropriate content on the
internet that is targeted towards our younger generation. The digital age is
also drastically changing the demands of children.
480 They demand handheld devices, games and apps
influenced by their friends and peer pressure. However, children’s demands are
more likely an effect than a cause.
Parents are finding
it more difficult to find a balance in their daily lives and, understandably,
often resort to the services of digital nannies to keep toddlers busy
while they finish work, buy groceries or simply distract the child during
feeding times. The problem is probably not the gadgets themselves, but the
extent560 of their usage.
Establishing boundaries and learning a disciplinarian style of parenting
is important both for the children and the parent. For example, children must
know that when parents set a rule, they should expect positive behaviours and
consequences to reactive and600 inappropriate behaviours. The science of parenting vouches for
an authoritative parenting style. Children of such parents are likely to
become responsible adults who feel comfortable and confident in expressing
their opinions. A child, who is naturally inquisitive and imitates the640 adults around him, can be fuelled by positive role-modelling. Healthy
conversations and productive family time are important aspects that will help
in parenting, especially in the modern digital age. Parenting styles are
influenced by several factors. Each parent and family use a set of strategies
to control and manage their children’s behaviour. Parenting styles can be
influenced by700 the changing socio-economic factors, cultural and religious practices
and differences, personal characteristics, and psychological factors and
exposure to the digital world. 720 Parenting styles are mostly unique and can have different impact and
outcomes on a child’s mind, heart and behaviour, each of which potentially
leaves a lasting impression that can greatly impact the child throughout his
or her life.
The modern-day society
must be structured on values and principles that uphold the common good,
discipline and virtue. Parenting along with the learning environment of the
school and the neighbouring community are some of the most primary interactions
a child has in800 early life. Therefore, a society must have inherent values to uphold
education, health, parenting and social norms of behaviour. Parenting is a
responsibility that must be taught, valued, and practised for the
personal and greater good of every individual.
840 Thus, a spectrum of responsible caregiving and
professional services are required in society to mould the structure of the
society and support positive parenting. The discourse ought to be on how
to strike a balance and derive benefit in the digital age through research,
communication, and collective action. If the child finds strange content on the
internet, he or she should be able to confide with the parents and look
for support on how to respond to it. Parents can transform digital
experiences into learning experiences through strategies that
maximise the benefit and minimise the threats. Parents must know how to set up parental
locks and passwords for applications that are not appropriate for kids. The
use of devices and960 the duration of use can be monitored to strike a balance.
Parents can also engage with the child while using980 digital devices to talk about the value of time spent in learning,
exploring, and interacting with the world through devices. The real matter at
hand is to think of children as active citizens in the digital age who will use
the devices and internet to influence their perceptions of the world around
them. Thus, our time is in need of family programmes and initiatives. Policies
and programmes structure the society and can support parents through their
parenting journeys. State legislation and provisions must offer a
comprehensive structure inclusive of health, safety, and education
infrastructure, as well as policies that empower1080 economic independence and stability for families and children.
When e-learning made a splash in the educational sector, many people
thought that it will dispel the needs of a real teacher. Maybe that
is why many were hesitant to give it1120 a shot, go online and try e-learning methods to teach. Then came the
pandemic. So, the summer breaks in India turned into an online teaching
workshop for teachers across the nation and outside it too. Teachers of all age
and experience were now trying to adapt to technology to reach the
students. But does this mean technology had overpowered traditional classroom
learning? Does this mean technology and e-learning alone are enough for
students? Certainly not. A teacher, as always, is1200 required to guide the students. They are needed to help students
filter and navigate through the immense sea of information at their fingertip. They
are required to help students make sense of the flashy images, the texts
that scroll past in a hurry, and also how to use the tools that promise
the learning process to be easy and fun. 1260 A teacher is required for all this and more. When technology and human
intelligence come together, they can create magic.
1280 This is what teachers can do on e-learning
platforms. Their experience and human touch, combined with the quality and
relevant curriculum provided on e-learning platforms can help students with not
just studies, but life.